A recent pamper weekend away with the girls got me thinking about all the different massage experiences I’ve had over the years – and this inspired me to think about what the ideal massage experience would be…
What would the perfect massage involve?
- Mix and Match Treatments. I’m flexible and can adapt any massage treatment to suit your requirements. Post Lockdown special offer (A) extend your massage from 80min to 110min for just £20 extra or (B) Combine two treatments and receive 20% off. **
These are the gorgeous Ayurvedic teas I offer to my clients at the start of every session. I choose the tea specifically for them based on the season, their constitution, or to balance aggravated doshas. For example, the combination of Cinnamon, Fennel Seeds, Cloves, Black Pepper and Ginger makes it very warming and therefore pacifies Kapha (water + earth elements). It is also good for any Kapha type disorders like weight gain, colds, allergies.
At home, we like to make our own blends… In my kitchen cupboards you’ll find a disorganised array of jars, boxes and spices amongst the teacups. It’s a curious blend of smells. The icebox in the freezer is filled with pretty ice-cubes, like so many miniature icebergs with plants and flowers trapped inside, waiting to be thawed.
Making a pot of tea in our house is an occasion. The children have learned to medicate themselves with herbs and spices and it really works. Grazed knees are soothed, sore throats and bad moods eased – all with a few leaves and flowers from the garden or some dried wild herbs foraged during long summer walks. Our favourite tea time is whilst supper is on the stove – we’ll have a pot of tea on the go and homework books and playing cards out and we’ll play, drink tea and just hang out, waiting for the food to cook. In a house with four children, the kitchen is a busy, social place and I treasure those times. Over a cup of tea we discuss deep matters of the heart, or we laugh about the time when…
My eldest is 18 and it won’t be long now before he is absent from our social tea times, and it makes my heart ache to think that there will soon be an empty chair at the kitchen table. But I know that I have taught him well. There will be plenty times in the future, I’m sure, that he’ll be hung over or feeling dull and heavy from too much junk food – but I know that he’ll be able to whip something up to make himself feel better – a cup of tea, pot of soup or heal-all Kitchari. I like to think that ‘tea time‘ will be a tradition he will take with him into his new life at Uni and beyond.
SOME TEA RECIPES
1 cup raw Honey
2 broken Cinnamon sticks
1 tsp cloves
1 inch length of Vanilla bean
1 pinch ground Cardamom
Put all the herbs in a sterilised glass jar. Add the honey and put the lid on, making sure it’s airtight. Gently shake the jar until everything is covered in honey. Allow it to sit in a dark cupboard for 3 weeks. Add the honey to hot water with a slice of lemon and fresh ginger. No sore throats or coughs!
TO BOOST YOUR DIGESTION
2 cups of boiling water
2 big mint leaves/a mint tea bag or Coriander leaves
1/4 tsp ground cumin
1/4 tsp ground fennel seeds
2-3 thin slices of fresh ginger root
Put boiling water in a small bowl and add spices and herbs to steep. Strain into thermos. Sip during day.
1 part Rose petals
1/2 part dried Lavender
1/2 part Jasmine
2 parts Hibiscus
Sweeten with honey if required.
Steep in hot water for 10 minutes. (I’ve written ‘part’ instead of teaspoon because a teaspoon of each is too much for a cup of tea, and it depends on whether you’re making a cup or a teapot of tea. I usually just take a 2, 3 or 4 fingered pinch)
Posted on June 25, 2019
Archaeology can be a stuffy subject to read about or it can conjure up images of adventure Indiana Jones style – but mainly it has been a male-dominated field where women in history have been marginalised and vilified. This article isn’t about that but I never realised the epic proportions of this until I started doing past life regression.
Case in point… the discovery of tattooed female mummies in Egypt (and other places too like Africa and Mongolia), the most famous of these being Amunet [1,2], Priestess of the Goddess Hathor who was discovered in 1891. Sadly, the French Egyptologist who discovered her dismissed her as a woman of low status, probably a prostitute or ‘dancing girl’ or maybe a royal concubine because she was found at the site of royal/high status burials . I wonder if it occurred to him that she might have been there as a woman in her own right? She was covered in many tattoos of lotus blossoms, wadjet-eyes , seated baboons  and snakes which were seen as quite sensual (because snakes are erotic? hence the prostitute inference) but of course, at the time when she was discovered, curved table legs were also considered sensual so one must view their reaction in context to their Victorian values.
This is the bit that made my heart beat faster… these are also magical symbols.
Snakes are often pictured on magical items and the wadjet-eye’s magical context is well documented. The seated baboons could be related to Thoth , a god well known for his use of magic. Furthermore, the combination of the seated Thoth-baboons and wadjet-eye in a magical context is well attested since the Middle Kingdom (ca. 1550 – 1069 BCE) when it started to be used on ivory wands and other magical objects.
All the other tattoos on her body seem to be connected to a kind of magic associated with the idea of power and divine action. The placement of the permanent tattoos on her body would not only have linked her with the divine through Hathoric symbolism, but also empowered her to take on important magical roles – for example the wadjet-eyes on her neck may have enhanced her ability to cast spells and give magical powers to her speech.
I have had many lives in Ancient Egypt but also Atlantis, Africa and Mongolia where I have served as priestess, magician, herbalist or witch and shaman. I have come across many clients who have had similar lives. In one case, I had a client who saw herself as a priestess in Egypt performing a ceremony which she described in detail and also those attending, in particular a man wearing an Anubis mask who then went on to process down the river on a flat-bottomed boat as she watched from the river bank. Imagine my astonishment when, a few days later, I regressed a man who described the same ceremony but he was the man in the Anubis mask! I had another client who saw himself as a trainee magician and as part of his training he had to hike to a remote cabin up a mountain where he studied an ancient Grimoire . I asked him if he could see what was written in the book and he told me it was mainly maths and pictures of cones and vortices. It was explaining how to harness energy and project it at objects. He then went into the woods where he practised ‘throwing energy balls’ at trees, breaking off branches. Sometimes clients can vividly describe broaches or amulets and I’ve even seen wands I’ve used in the past enhanced with crystals.
So to come back to the arrogant Egyptologists of the past – women did indeed hold positions of power and were revered and even feared in ancient times. My favourite life is one where I was a Mongolian herbalist/healer and a much-loved member of the community. It is also sadly, the only life of many that I’ve seen where I lived to a ripe old age and died of natural causes. In the other lives I’ve been driven mad by the powerful magic (more than once – took me a while to learn!) and I’ve been driven out, hunted, tortured, drowned, burned etc. – the history books are full of these stories. It is also not surprising that in this life I am an Ayurvedic Therapist – Ayurveda being the ancient medicinal system of India, practiced for more than 75,000 years.
If you would like to explore your life as a woman or man with magical powers, please let me know as I’m building a portfolio and doing some research into this. We are once again beginning to understand that that which is seen is but a fraction of the world around us. We are coming back to energy and spirit and our ancient roots where we felt the connectedness of all living things both here on earth and the cosmos. Everything is energy and vibration. The scientific community is excited about ‘discovering’ this – but the old souls amongst us have always known this.
What is the difference between Regression THERAPY and Past Life Regression?
Past Life Regression is when light hypnosis is used to enter into a past life – sometimes this can be directed to find the source of a phobia or perhaps you simply want to explore a life where you may have been a Roman Soldier because you’ve always had a feeling you may have been one. (It’s amazing how often we are aware of past lives without even fully realising it). Regression can also offer you insights which may be useful when you’re working with a therapist on an issue (let’s use agoraphobia as an example).
Regression Therapy is quite different. Staying with the theme of Agoraphobia, there are a number of ways a Regression Therapy session could go. Hypnosis is not always necessary as we may enter the associated past life through “body work” (where your body literally “shows” me the source of the unresolved energy). A good example would be my client who came down with a migraine every time she was in an enclosed space. I scanned her for unresolved energy being held in the body connected to her migraines. She very strongly began to experience the feeling of being trapped with a piercing pain in her head and soon she spontaneously entered the past life where she’d been tortured in an Iron Maiden during the Middle Ages. It was this unresolved trauma that was triggering her migraines. We worked with her body to release the energy of that memory and resolve the issue there and then.
Regression is a very quick and direct way of healing the body when it is holding energy from the past that needs resolving. *
But, depending on what comes up, the session could have been done another way. I could have used light hypnosis to go to the first time the client remembered feeling the Migraine and panic in an enclosed space – and we might have been led to the aforementioned past life, or we could have ended up in her current life when she was a newborn sleeping in a drawer and the drawer had been shut. Perhaps this was a regular occurrence and seen as a way of settling the crying baby, but in actuality it was traumatising the baby. We would then do some inner child healing to transform this traumatic event and resolve any issues that may have arisen through childhood to the present day. We would also check whether there were any links leading to past lives that need resolving too. Sometimes the “echo” of a past event or even a past life still reverberates in our current life and we need to go to the source to heal it. So, having healed the effects in the current life of being shut in the drawer, we will then follow the “echo” to the source and end up at the Iron Maiden life where we will resolve the issue and any feelings of panic or powerlessness that may have arisen from that situation.
There are usually 3 parts to regression therapy – getting information about the issue (viewing the past life/current life) and transforming the issue and energy healing. Knowing that there is always a lesson or a reason why something happens to us, we do transformation in the Spirit Realms to gain soul perspective – sometimes looking at soul contracts, or having conversations with people to resolve issues or simply getting in touch with our Higher Self. Coming back to my client – she found out that her soul wanted to learn about power – in that life she experienced extreme powerlessness but in other lives she’d experienced power and the abuse of power, sometimes being the victim, and other times the perpetrator. In the Spirit Realms she met with her torturer and discovered he was in her soul group (which surprised her to learn that he was not evil, but had merely been playing the role so that she could learn about powerlessness). She was even more surprised to discover that he is now her current life husband. As a result of these insights, she was able to let go of the energy and forgive. As soon as my client let go of that traumatic energy, she no longer experienced the panic and migraines. In this example it took one session, but for more complex issues there may be layers to resolve. Each session will be complete in itself and you will feel better after each layer is transformed.
Any Regression Therapy session will always end with the healing and re-balancing of your energy. I also ensure that your energy is clear and that you’re not carrying any energy that does not belong to you. Sometimes we can absorb other people’s energy, especially when we care about them, but it’s not very good for our health and I will show you how to keep your energy clear and healthy. Sometimes spirits can attach themselves to our energy fields and this will have a detrimental effect on our health, so I clear these as well and show you how to prevent this from happening.
Quite alot happens in a session, and this is the reason that we train for 2 years to do Regression Therapy and why a session can last up to 3 hours, hence the cost. It is a very powerful way to shift anything in your life that doesn’t work for you. One session may be enough or you may need more, but overall, it is quicker than counselling which can last for years.
* If you’re wondering how it’s possible for your body to store past life energy, think of the WW1 soldiers who returned from the war with Shell Shock (what we now call PTSD). Every time they heard a loud noise, or were triggered by a flashback or even a smell, their bodies would involuntarily duck or curl up or they would start shaking. Unfortunately they had to live with that trauma, but we now have the tools to be able to completely heal the trauma and associated triggers.
The soul is eternal and can carry energy forward through lifetimes.
I charge £50 for the first hour as some sessions are very short. After the first hour I charge by the half hour. Most sessions last between 1.5 to 2 hours and are preceded by a free 20min chat where you can get a feel of whether this is for you.
This lovely children’s Reiki workshop is specially designed for children aged 8-12 and it’s all about nurturing their intuition and healing energy. It’s being run by Susie who is a multi-talented therapist and sound healer who is based in Essex, so I’m really happy that she accepted my invitation to do this for us here in Wiltshire.
This fun and vibrant workshop is being run over 2 days during February halfterm – but don’t feel concerned that your child won’t be able to be still for 2 days in a row. There will be lots of time for expression, creation and running around like a looney!
Children will be learning about healing and energies. They will learn to let the Reiki energy teach them how to connect with the unseen world around them and to develop their intuition. Over the 2 days we will cover:-
- What is Reiki?
- What is energy and how to heal
- Connect to your reiki guide / dragon / angel
- Connect through sound using drums, gongs, singing bowls and your own voice
- Learn how to meditate with Reiki crystals / plants / chakras…
Date: 19-20 February
Time: Drop off at 9.30am for 10am. Pick up at 3pm
Venue: Equilibrium Natural Health Centre, 23 Leafield Way, Corsham, Wilts SN13 9RS
Bring: a packed lunch, pillow and blanket
Please note that the class size will be limited to 10 children, so early booking is advised. To book, please email Elizabeth at firstname.lastname@example.org or call/text 07879 447 631. A deposit of £50 will secure your place.
When I adopted the Ahimsa (do no harm) philosophy 3 years ago, I had no idea how much it would turn my world upside down.
I began by evaluating my relationships then broadened it to include my relationship with myself, the companies I do business with and my relationship with my mother – the Earth. I realised it’s nearly impossible in the 21st Century not to harm someone even before I’ve had my breakfast. For example – the company I bought my herbal tea from had a beautiful “face” but a black, corporate, greedy heart causing poverty and suffering to communities and deforestation in Sri Lanka. Frankly, I would like to see them change their ways or go out of business, so I did the only thing I could do – I changed supplier.
In 2010 I started making my own herbal decoctions, scrubs and salves from natural plants and oils. This was after I discovered my expensive ‘natural’ beauty products were being tested on animals. I had no idea when I bought them and binned them in disgust. I learned that a company can test their products on animals, wait 2 years and then market their products as “not tested on animals”. What?! The more I researched, the heavier my heart grew.
I began seeking alternatives. I don’t think many people are aware of the many herbs and plants nearing extinction because of the beauty and health industries. I don’t want to have any part in this so I simply switched to small, ethical companies. In 2017 I began sourcing my massage oils from NHR Organics who use only ethically grown, food grade essential oils and herbs. Their oils don’t contain preservatives or emulsifiers and are 100% plant based. Working with the energy of these beautiful oils has greatly enhanced my treatments.
Earlier this year I switched my essential oil supplier to Aqua Oleum (meaning water and oil) which are the raw materials for all their products. In alchemy, the name ‘Aqua Oleum’ symbolically refers to the two seemingly opposed aspects of matter and spirit, which are nevertheless unified within human nature. Based in Gloucestershire, this 3rd generation family run business has a profound respect for nature and the Earth and they belong to the Vegan Society, as well as being a member of the Aromatherapy Trade Association and have satisfied the requirements of the Soil Association Standards for Organic Food and Farming and Regulation. That’s a big mouthful, but what I’m trying to show is that I’m no longer supporting big, greedy, impersonal corporations who bully the ethical ‘little guys’ and plunder the planet in search of the latest trend so that they can push consumerism. Petitions and protests don’t seem to accomplish much, but if we all switched to local ethical businesses what a difference that would make virtually overnight.
In 2018 I began offering facials using Tropic natural plant skincare. Tropic Founder, Susie Ma’s story really resonates with me. Only ethically sourced tropical plants are used to produce Tropic’s freshly made beauty products which are then shipped straight from their Beauty Kitchens in Surrey to the customer – so no standing around in warehouses and therefore no need for nasty chemicals.
TROPIC is a certified CARBON NEUTRAL company, and as well as being VEGAN and GLUTEN FREE, their products are NEVER TESTED ON ANIMALS. They have won the Good Shopping Guide award as an ETHICAL COMPANY. In fact, Tropic has won over 100 awards. Not bad for a 15 year old who started out in 2004 by selling her home-made body scrubs in jam jars at Greenwich Market. Eventually she went on to appear in BBC’s The Apprentice in 2011 where Lord Alan Sugar was so impressed that he invested to become a 50/50 partner and the #GreenBeautyRevolution was born.
You don’t need to be an activist – you just need to make ethical heart-based choices.
Finally, the starkness of winter has been replaced by vivid green buds. Daffodils and tulips grace our vases, and anticipation for the summer is growing.
From an Ayurvedic perspective, spring is a distinctly kapha season. If it were possible to
sum Spring up in 2 words, I would say “WARM” and “RAINY”.
In fact, the Sanskrit word kapha, means ‘that which flourishes in water,’ and what season is more defined by the presence of water than spring? Due to the warmth, snow thaws, the sap rises and trees begin to bud, and energy begins to move upward. Similarly accumulated Kapha in the body starts liquefying and flowing. This process can either be a revitalizing event or it can trigger a number of health challenges. That is why so many people get spring colds and sinus. In addition, as flowers shed their pollen and fragrance, making Vata and Pitta people happy, kapha individuals get hay fever and allergies.
Sound familiar? The good news is that you don’t have to start popping antihistamines — a seasonal routine is actually one of our best tools for minimizing spring’s kapha-aggravating potential. And because Kapha is now in a liquid state, it can easily be eliminated from the body with the correct seasonal diet and lifestyle.
How do I know if I have a Kapha Imbalance?
In the mind: Changes in your mental state will often be one of the first indications that an imbalance is on the horizon. Signs that kapha is increasing in the mind include a generalized feeling of heaviness or sluggishness, drowsiness, brain fog, melancholy, or low mood and a tendency towards excessive sleep or afternoon naps.
In the digestive tract: This is one of the first places that aggravated kapha will make itself known. Early signs of kapha imbalance include a sense of heaviness, an uncomfortable feeling of fullness in the stomach, nausea, excess salivation which is thick or slimy, a sweet taste in the mouth, poor appetite or indigestion, and a slow or suppressed metabolism. Excess kapha in the digestive tract can also cause the stools to be heavy, oily, pale or sticky. Kapha is also at the root of mucoid diarrhea and pre-diabetes.
In the respiratory system: Signs of kapha imbalance include colds, coughs, excessive accumulation of mucus, a runny nose, excess nasal crust, and hay fever. Aggravated kapha can also cause congestion or a feeling of tightness in the sinuses, throat or chest.
In the circulatory system: Excess kapha in the circulatory system, skin, muscles and adipose tissue can be an indication that a kapha imbalance is starting to spread. This may cause lymphatic congestion, swollen lymph glands, mild (and intermittent) hypertension, hives, itching, pallor, cold sweats, reduced sweating, loss of strength, the formation of lipomas, fibroids, and/or weight gain.
The Basics of a Kapha-Pacifying Diet
You can reduce the amount of kapha in your system by avoiding oily, sour, sweet and salty foods. Instead, favour the pungent, bitter, and astringent tastes found in fresh vegetables, and indulge your taste buds with a variety of herbs and spices and very soon you will be feeling light and full of energy. Goodbye sinus and hay fever. It really is that simple. I’ll explain…
Large quantities of grains like wheat and barley, bread, dairy and red meat are best avoided in the spring. These are mucus-forming foods and heavy to digest. Cold foods and drinks, ice cream, and raw salads are best avoided too as they dampen appetite and impair digestion, especially if your digestion is trying to cope with excess kapha.
Some simple lifestyle changes can help to decrease the amount of Kapha in your system whilst shedding those extra pounds gained at Christmas.
- Wake up early and do some Yoga – Sun Salutations are ideal. Or try some Pilates or simply go for a brisk walk. Bhastrika (bellows breathing) and Right Nostril breathing are also helpful.
- Tongue Scraping: This simple hygiene practice removes bacteria and toxins that have accumulated on the tongue overnight. It also serves to stimulate and cleanse the digestive tract and the vital organs.
- Portion control is essential to balancing kapha. If the stomach is too full, digestion is impaired. Ideally, at the end of a meal, the stomach should contain one third food, one third liquid, and one third should be empty. Imagine a cooking pot filled to the brim – the food won’t cook properly and may overflow the pot.
- Eat a light breakfast, snack as little as possible, and eat a healthy meals that include a lot of vegetables, like stews, stir-fry, soup or kitchari. It’s also helpful to drink room-temperature or hot drinks, and to avoid iced drinks.
- Tisanes are a great way to enjoy herbs. Pick some of your favourite herbs/spices like rosemary, basil, fresh ginger and black pepper and steep in a cup of hot water. Add a slice of lemon and enjoy. Add a little honey to hot drinks as honey is heating and helps to melt kapha. Other herbs and spices which are delicious as tisanes are cardamom, cinnamon, fennel.
- Boost your appetite with finely grated ginger, a pinch of black pepper, rock salt, lemon juice and honey. Mix and keep in the fridge in an airtight container and have ¼ teaspoon 15mins before each meal.
- Fasting: this is a good time to observe a juice fast of apple, pomegranate or berry juice. (Do not fast if you become light-headed or weak. Use the above advice instead).
- Take Triphala at bedtime. Triphala is a traditional Ayurvedic formula comprised of three fruits that is balancing for Vata, Pitta and Kapha. It is revered for its unique ability to gently cleanse and detoxify the digestive tract while replenishing, nourishing, and rejuvenating the tissues.
- Avoid day-time sleeping, however tempting it may be. This aggravates Kapha. Better to go to bed at a reasonable hour so that you can wake early for Yoga. And just think – only 7 months to go before you can start spending more time in bed again in order to balance Vata during Autumn.
For more tailored advice, I am offering £20 off all consultations during April with the code G4S.
Kapha left unchecked leads to more serious imbalances
There is evidence that the Plantain has been used for millennia throughout the world, and here in England, the plantain was held in high esteem by our Anglo-Saxon ancestors who listed it as one of the 9 sacred herbs in their herbal Lacnunga (meaning remedies) compiled around the late 10th century. Its praises are sung by Nicholas Culpeper in Culpeper’s Herbal printed in 1652 and even King Henry VIII used it as a herb. Currently, it is used medicinally in Burma, China and Hawaii where they have done much Scientific research into the efficacy of this herb.
But sadly here in the UK, it’s immense medicinal value was lost to common knowledge and it is now considered a weed to be eradicated from every garden and allotment or crack in the pavement it grows from. And yet it was once described as a panacea herb.
Some facts about this wonderful wild herb:
- Plantain is loaded with vitamins and minerals including A, B1, C, K, Calcium, Iron and a considerable amount of potassium.
- Relative of the psyllium plant and the seeds can be eaten raw or cooked. Harvest seed heads, dry them and strip the seeds off.
- Seeds can be groun and mixed with flour to make bread.
- Plantain juice is very soothing for skin inflammation.
- Juice in the eyes cools irritated, tired eyes. Blend leaves with a little warm water to extract the juice. Strain well.
- Plantain is a natural antihistamine. For Hayfever tea– pick the leaves and steep them in boiling water for 10 mins. To enhance the flavour you can add basil, chamomile, or parsley which are all natural antihistamines too.
- As a Salve, it draws dirt and puss infection out of wounds and soothes cuts, grazes, rashes and eczema. Also used in cases of blood poisoning. To make a salve, shred the leaves and infuse for 2 to 4 hours on a gentle heat in coconut oil. The oil should not be warmer than body temperature at any time. Using coconut oil gives it a firm texture but beware – it is liquid in warm temperatures. If you want the texture of a salve, you can grate in some bees wax. I like to use a ratio of 1:4. Adding beeswax also gives it a little more shelf life stability.
- Plantain is not only fantastic for people problems, but is also a valuable Animal Remedy. Use infused oil or salve on cuts, wounds, rashes, stings and other skin conditions. The Plantain will draw out any contaminants before effectively healing the damaged tissue. Try blending the Plantain with a few drops of Tea Tree Oil for added antifungal properties; this mix is excellent for treating the many fungal complaints suffered by horses.
- Coughs and colds – in the form of a plantain succus. Blend the leaves with a little warm water to extract the juice. Mix equal quantities of juice with raw organic honey and keep in the fridge. Perfect for dry coughs and hayfever.
- Stomach ulcers, IBS and digestive tract infections. 1 tsp 3xpd
- Succus – apply topically for cuts or ulcers